Sometimes I wonder why I am still awake.
Right about now, 12:34AM, was my father's favorite time of day, other than dusk. He was a night-owl. I get it from him. And he used to love staying up late to chat. So perhaps now he wants to chat from the grave, as they say.
If he were alive at this moment, he would provide me with several snippets of wisdom and memories that he'd want passed to his granddaughter.
I used to call your mother "Minny" when she would call on the phone. I would say in a big voice "hello, Minny!" I used to call your grandmother "Duck" and she returned the favor. These are fun little things you should know. Terms of endearment.
Always listen to your music a little (or a lot!) louder than your parents like – but none of that tinkle music crap (no Vivaldi, no Harry Connick) go for the good stuff – Schuman, Sinatra, Ella. If these names are not familiar, ask your mother. I shamelessly bought her CDs until the day I died and she better still have them!
Eat chocolate every day…DARK chocolate. Milk chocolate is for the birds.
When you start at a new school or a new job, ignore everything people tell you about themselves in the first month – all lies! The truth comes out later. And then you should pick your friends.
Don't worry so much. If you do worry, don't worry about that either as you cannot help it. It's in your Finnish and Irish blood. Just do as the Brits say and "Keep Calm and Carry On"
Watch as many black and white movies as you can.
Give your father a big hug every day and call him as often as you can.
Give boys a break when you are a teenager. Boys are stupid but usually nice and just cannot help themselves. Be patient with them.
Go to church. If you don't understand why, keep going. (and make sure your mother and father go too)
Martinis are good. Vodka straight up. No ice. Extra olives. Save this piece of advice until you are of age (18).
Go to Paris. It was my favorite city – Oh Paris! Try to live there.
Take piano lessons!
When you like something, buy at least two. If you really like something, consider starting a collection.
Appreciate the beauty of sour cherries.
Good friends are not always the people you talk to most often. Sometimes there are people you talk to infrequently, but it's as if you are picking up mid-comma. These are great friends.
I am more interested in your editorials than your headlines.
Gray is a fantastic color. Brown is hideous.
Remember where you come from.
Be nice to everyone on the way up, because you will certainly meet them on the way down!
Always have a good TV and pay attention to what's on. Your parents are certain to disagree with this but I loved TV and know better than they.
Whenever you visit a restaurant, be sure to grab as many of their cards as you can. They make fabulous bookmarks.
You should know that the day I baptized you I was not in good shape. Things were going down hill fast, as they say. But the MOMENT I baptized you it all lifted. No pain, no weakness, only strength and the peace of God himself came through me.
Always order dessert. The chocolate dessert.
Love, your Grandfather
p.s. I am certain there is more to come on this later…not sure this is kylie or dad speaking.